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Shashidar Srinivasa: Messaging of Meals

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Shashidar Srinivasa at KQED in San Francisco on Apr. 3, 2026. (Martin do Nascimento/KQED)

After a family trip, Shashidhar Srinivasa explores the idea of new names for meal times.

Last summer, on a week-long family vacation, we ran into a distinctly American problem: too much food. Eating every meal out, we quickly realized that oversized portions — combined with our reluctance to waste food — made three meals a day feel excessive. By the second day, we adjusted.

My wife suggested skipping a meal. Two meals would be enough. “Brunch and… Lunner,” I said. “Lunner?” they asked. “A mix of lunch and dinner — like brunch, but later. A late lunch, early dinner.” My wife agreed. “Brunch and Lunner it is.” Our teenage daughter disagreed. “Please stop saying ‘Lunner.’ It’s not a thing.”

That reaction made me curious. Why wasn’t “lunner” a thing? It seemed practical. So, I looked into it. Others have tried naming that in-between meal — “drunch,” for example — but none have stuck. Which raises a bigger question: why did “brunch” succeed? Part of the answer is cultural. Brunch didn’t just solve a scheduling problem — it carried a sense of leisure and aspiration.

Popularized among British elites, it signaled a lifestyle as much as a meal. So, what would it take for “Lunner” to catch on? As norms around work and identity evolve, it’s possible new habits will emerge from different communities and routines.

Perhaps one day, someone will say “lunner” became a thing because it reflected how people actually lived — busy schedules, blended traditions and shifting mealtimes. Or maybe my daughter is right, and “lunner” will remain just a dad joke that never made it past a hotel room. Either way, for that vacation, brunch and lunner worked just fine. With a Perspective, I’m Shashidar Srinivasa.

Shashidhar Srinivasa is a software engineer working on data center networking and cloud infrastructure. He lives in Cupertino and is discovering the challenges—and joys—of raising a teen daughter.

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