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Carlos Roig: What I Learned From Coaching

Carlos Roig shares his thoughts after coaching little league baseball for years.

Carlos Roig shares his thoughts after coaching little league baseball for years.

In our house, there’s a random set of shelves set high up in a small alcove. It’s not exactly usable space — more like a design flaw that was destined to be forgotten. But I’ve filled those particle board shelves with a line of simple treasures — weathered baseball caps that witnessed the evolution of our children, our family and the places we’ve called home.

For more than a decade, I’ve coached little league baseball — every spring and most summers. I’ve taught the game on both coasts — hitting grounders in the humidity of Northern Virginia and throwing batting practice in the heat of Contra Costa County.

I really love everything about baseball — the crisp chalk foul lines and the smell of fresh-cut grass, the adrenaline of the first pitch and the drama of the last out. I even love the heartbreak, because every season for every player at every level of play either ends with a crushing defeat or, oh so rarely, a glorious championship.

This spring, I’ll lead my last little league team — our oldest son is heading to college and our middle is about to start high school, so it’s down to our youngest and me — one more season wearing matching caps.

As I look back on my teams, I see a movie reel of memories. Home runs. Double plays. Diving catches. But also, the comedy and joy of 12 young knuckleheads in a dugout. It would appear that my little league journey is at a close, but you know what? My buddy has little kids — and maybe there’s a grandchild somewhere in our future — so I’ll hold onto my glove and know that that odd little alcove has a cap ready to return to my personal field of dreams. With a Perspective, I’m Carlos Roig.

Carlos Roig is a writer and communications consultant, based in Lafayette.

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