Stephen Lavezzo: A Love Letter

Stephen Lavezzo reflects on the similarities between living in Hawaii and the Bay Area.

There is a concept in Hawaiian culture known as “kuleana.” In simple terms, it means respect and responsibility for the land. It comes from a culture that has endured a long struggle to survive — a past few tourists know.

It’s easier to plan beach days, choose restaurants and post your favorite spot… than to see beyond the surface. The focus often stays on quaint “aloha” greetings and SPF levels.

But the sea, the flowers, the breeze, the birdsong — these are not just beautiful things. They are part of a story. A story of resilience, sorrow and injustice. There’s no absolute right to claim this place as “ours.” But we do have a responsibility to understand that it is a privilege to experience it.

I’ve felt it before, though stronger this summer, sailing past the cliffs of Nā Pali, and swimming in the waters of Kailua — I listen. I am a guest here. A tourist, a visitor to a sacred place with a proud ancestral presence. “This isn’t mine. It belongs to them.” Never more clearly than when I pass a Big Island umbrella, beach chairs, towels and an empty chip bag blowing in the wind. Where are they?

This consciousness is easy to ignore — especially now. Pristine places like Hawai‘i are more accessible than ever. But visits must include an awareness of that privilege. Know the history. Understand that the land holds stories far older — and more beautiful — than any itinerary.

This same “kuleana” applies here at home in the Bay Area, where we also walk on land once stewarded by native peoples, where the beauty around us also carries a deeper story — one that demands more than admiration, like understanding, respect and care.

Focus no more on what we can take, but on what it might awaken in us. Let it humble. Let it guide.
“E komo mai i ka hale,” [meaning] “Come into the house.”

With a Perspective, I’m Stephen Lavezzo.

Stephen Lavezzo is a retired public school teacher and occasional writer. He is enjoying an uncomplicated phase of his life, that includes travel and tourism.