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Megan O'Malley: Women in Mythology

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Megan O’Malley reflects on myths about women throughout the ages.

“Mommy brain is real,” my friend told me as I reluctantly admitted I could feel a dullness in my mind. It took me a few years to admit that I was disoriented by my post-partum, embarrassed that I could not be everything I was before motherhood, that gaining a new aspect of myself meant I had to drop something else.

I am of a generation of “Oregon Trail” women, the computer game, not the actual pioneer migration. We came of age hearing Anita Hill confront sexual harassment and seeing two women senators represent California. We knew there were challenges in our journey, and we learned how to stock up, head out and press on.

In her book “Divine Might,” Natalie Haynes interrogates Greek and Roman narratives to reconsider the goddesses of Greek myth. She considers how the stories of Greek goddesses have mostly been rendered by men and how they deserve some empathy for their famous or infamous acts.

Haynes explains varied and occasionally contradictory versions of Artemis, noting how the Greeks adapted her to fit the different sacred women in communities they conquered. There were social pivots achieved through cultural comingling.

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It reminded me of the ancient Celtic deities who were crushed by Catholicism. In her book “The Serpent and the Goddess,” Mary Condren explains how serpents were a sacred symbol of feminine power that was stamped out when a new spirituality came to Ireland’s shores and women’s strength needed to be controlled.

I consider the strength of women who came before me, what was lost in some versions of their stories, and I realize that I have gained more than I lost through motherhood. I have to re-examine my strengths.

When we re-humanize the women of bygone eras, we re-humanize parts of ourselves. We can build community through love and help the next generation discover new possibilities. As Audre Lorde wrote, “We can practice being gentle with each other by being gentle with that piece of ourselves that is hardest to hold.”

With a Perspective, I’m Megan O’Malley.

Megan O’Malley is a Bay Area native who works in the East Bay. She is passionate about public education, the arts and enjoying California’s many green spaces.

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