When your shoes follow you into the house, they bring more than you with them. Richard Swerdlow has this Perspective.
COVID has changed things about the way we live, including how we socialize. As people resume entertaining at home, we're all navigating elbow-bumps versus hugs, and how close to sit on the sofa. Rules are uncertain in a pandemic-altered world, so when invited to someone’s home, I always have a mask in my pocket and make sure I'm wearing my best socks.
Because I've found, more and more, at a post-pandemic gathering, guests are asked to take off their shoes.
For a lot of people, this isn't new. Removing shoes before entering a home was customary in many cultures before the pandemic turned us all into germaphobes, and some folks have banned shoes inside for years. But amid fears of coronavirus, even with old friends with whom you're as comfortable as an old shoe, recently I was told to stash my sneakers at the door.
I was surprised by enforced stocking feet, but their house, their rules, and I didn’t want to judge my friends without first putting myself in their shoes. And after some research, I am now one of those one in three Americans who don't allow shoes in the house.