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Rebroadcast: I'm Sorry, But May We Discuss Tentative Speech?

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A recent New York Times opinion piece claimed that women apologize all the time – even when something is not their fault. It’s known as “tentative” or “indirect” speech, when people – usually women – start their sentences with “I’m sorry” or “If you don’t mind.” Is this something you do? Have you tried to change the way you speak – or do you use it to your advantage? We’ll dig into the nuances of tentative speech… if you don’t mind us doing that.

Guests:

Cristen Conger, co-creator and host of "Stuff Mom Never Told You" podcast and YouTube brand; senior writer and host at How Stuff Works.com

Deborah Tannen, professor of linguistics, Georgetown University; author of "You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation" and "Talking From 9 to 5"

Robin Lakoff, professor emerita in the Linguistics Department, UC Berkeley; author, "Language and Woman's Place"

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