In between the laughter and jokes, there's wisdom from a shared experience. And I just sit there and take notes.
Below are lightly edited excerpts of my conversation with Sydney Nycole and Gary Reeves.
Pen: So Gary, when when did you first notice Sydney's talents?
Gary: A friend of mine who's an engineer was in town from Florida and basically Sydney had asked you know to go into the studio for her birthday. He took her in. He was gracious enough to kind of --he worked with a lot of big artists. And he said, "Man Sydney can really write, man, and sing, man." And I'm like, "Dude what are you doing?" And I'm like, Huh? I mean, like Sydney was doing softball and volleyball, you know, in high school. So I'm like we're working on this softball scholarship is what we doin it right now [delete: he said]. I said I'm not trying to pull Sydney into music. He said, no bro, you got to hear this song, man. You've got to hear this song like it's right in front of you.
Gary: You know, after that, I mean, at the time, I was working heavily with Jamie Foxx. So she said, "Dad, I just want to do these three songs and then have a meeting with Jamie Foxx. And I said, "Okay, cool. I mean, like, that's not a big ask, OK? You know, I mean, you was like, if anybody can take, you know, so she's like she's like, let me just take take me right to the table dad. So I can go land this deal for myself like tomorrow, you know. (Laughs)
Pen: Wait, hold on. Wait, wait. What age is this?
Sydney: This is sixteen. Sixteen!
Pen: Oh yeah. Just let me meet Jamie Foxx. Whatever. I'm a go ahead and get started...
Pen: The reason why I wanted to have this conversation is not only to highlight the work that you all are doing, but also because it's Father's Day weekend and I'm a father of a young daughter who's she's some type of entertainer. So, like, do you have any advice?
Gary: The main thing is to be loving as a dad, you know? and then be real right? At the same time. Because if we sugarcoat it, the reality is going to hit them in the face at some point if they don't have what it takes to make it, right? So so from that standpoint, I'm always real with Sydney. Sydney has enough confidence where she will challenge me on certain things, I feel a certain way about. So I just let it go and like, hey, OK that's your decision, you live with your decision. fine. But Daddy love you, you know. But, understand Daddy's been in the game for 20 years, so so just understand that.
Sydney: My dad has let me be me. Like I went from volleyball to softball to being a singer to be like just he just let me go. But it was still of course, there's always love. So I feel like when you let a person be free and still have that love, they're going to blossom no matter what.
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