One little boy stands out for Fleeton. When she met with his mother for the first time, he explored the BANANAS play lab, an area set up for children. The boy started out unsure of what to do — he threw the blocks and banged on the musical instruments. But then, he found the play kitchen area.
He got out play dishes, set the table, pretended to wash his hands and then sat at the table, folding his hands.
“Oh look, he found something he liked,” Fleeton said to his mother. She responded that when they had a home, in Washington, D.C., they spent a lot of time together in the kitchen, preparing meals to eat together. That was what her son was used to — he wanted a home.
Fleeton couldn’t get the boy a home, but she was able to help his mother enroll him in a Head Start program. She thinks the stability, a place to go to every day where he can learn and feel at home, is important for him.
“It was so special to me because I just saw how the child completely found something he was motivated in doing,” Fleeton said. “It made me feel good that she was able to get the service, because in their situation, that consistency wasn’t broken and it wasn’t lost.”
The Alameda County team hopes to expand the program in coming years.
“We’re trying to determine if this is going to tip the scales for their housing situation, if they are having steady subsidized child care, so they can work and go to school, and will that be the basis to really support the family to get them out of experiencing homelessness,” said Heather Lang, family services manager at BANANAS.
That seems to be the case for some parents like Morales in San Francisco. Shortly after her 2-year-old daughter was enrolled in a home-based child care program and her 4-year-old son was enrolled in Head Start, Morales was finally able to move into a two-bedroom apartment in San Francisco, through a transitional housing program that will pay half of her rent for three years. By then, both her children will be in elementary school and she hopes to have a steady job with an income that will allow her to pay her own rent.
Morales could hardly believe it when she finally got the key. She said her kids couldn’t believe it either. They had lots of questions: “Whose place is this? Are we going to live here? And we’re not going to move again?”
“No,” Morales answered. “We’re not going to move again.”