PerspectivesUnwanted LessonsJolie KanatMar 14, 2008 at 12:37 AMSave ArticleSave ArticleFailed to save articlePlease try againFacebookShare-FBTwitterShare-TwitterEmailShare-EmailCopy LinkCopy LinkSometimes life teaches things you need to know the hard way. Jolie Kanat has done her homework. Sponsored See Comments